Are you feeling sad? Lonely?

As bad as it sounds,…NO ONE is going to come and save you!

But consider this: this is the best case scenario!

Want to know why? Because this puts your happiness in your own hands. No one has the power to control your emotions from thereon out.


“No one is going to come and save you.

So you’re sitting at home, scrolling through your social media, realizing how “happy” everyone is – travelling, drinking, going out, and all, but You, you’re just at home, getting sad scrolling through your Instagram and Snap Chat.

Besides the fact that, the happiness we show off on social media doesn’t reflect true happiness in our day-to-day lives, it is really something to consider.

What does happiness mean to you?

What brings you joy?

Are you truly happy?


Too often we let life decide things for us, without taking the time to get to know who we really are.

And it’s actually quite upsetting to think about how many passions, desires, dreams and goals we have set aside because of the way have been conditioned or because of the people we surround ourselves with and get influenced by.

Would pursuing those goals, passions, desires and dreams give us the happiness that we are all after?

Or is it just easier to place our happiness in the hands of another individual – a boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife/friend?

It actually may be easier because it keeps you from dealing with your own shit. BUT it does more damage than good, and this time to two people as opposed to just one.

So if you’re sitting at home, scrolling through your social media, realizing how sad, lonely, boring your life is… IN THIS VERY MOMENT, MAKE A DECISION TO CHANGE — A change to take control of your happiness.


  • Join a gym
  • Take on a new hobby
  • Write down your goals
  • Go for a walk

Unless YOU make the decision to change NOW, you will never really change.

No one else knows or can give you what you truly want, except you. & no one will be as sorry as you, if you don’t change.

Ever wonder how much time has passed by, but your life still seems to be the same? No big differences in terms of your attitudes, perspective, happiness, and circumstances.

Now think, can you see yourself continuing to live the life you are living now and being truly happy, say a year from now? Two years? Five years?


Then MAKE A CHANGE. At least one small change. Today. Now!

If you choose to remain, then you will have the same problems, same emotions, same routine, same perspective and same mindset. But the moment YOU decide to go after the life that you’ve always wanted, start loving yourself, making changes, and working towards your goals, is when you take your power back and begin make yourself happy!

4 Comments Add yours

  1. Great point, seems obvious, but make a change, “Insanity is doing the same thing, over and over again, but expecting different results.”

    Liked by 1 person

    1. dhanjald says:

      Thank you Joanne! Great quote, and so true.


  2. Kerry brockie says:

    This is awesome! So well said and so true on so many levels. I find those you think are out having a good time and great things happening but they may be the ones struggling. Either way it is about you and your happiness. You need to fix yourself before helping or making others happy. So important. Thank you for sharing

    Liked by 1 person

    1. dhanjald says:

      Thank you Kerry. Yes, I totally agree!


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